The change...

My last day in Singapore yet again. So much have happened in this 1 month stay, happy ones as well as sad ones, a balance is always a good thing but not always the case.

Doing something that you are willing to do is very different from doing something for the sake of doing it. Doing things unwillingly is as good as not doing it. Why do it when you don't feel like doing it? Is it always true to say that, "friends are there when you needed them the most"? When you needed your friend most, do you approach them or do you wait for them to approach you? Both approaches are completely different.

Approaching your friends for emotional support or any other form of support seems to be the more correct approach and when friends approach you when coincidently, you are experiencing some struggles, are based on luck and coincidence.

If one don't express his or her concern or situations in which they are in, everyone around wouldn't be able to know whether or not you need support in which ever ways that are deemed feasible. We can't expect our friends whom we don't live together under the same roof (maybe some do), to know at which time of the day he/she would feel emotionally lost, even so under the same roof, i doubt we did be able to know that. We are not mind readers.

There are many kinds of problems, some problems can be solved easily and some couldn't. I limit the number of friends whom i tell my problems to is simply because the problem is not easy to solve and only time will tell. Moreover, it involves legal issues which are enforce by the law. All i need is a few listeners, that's all and moreover, it ain't something that i should tell alot of people about.

Things have changed so much and i have noticed the change in me as well, it has been tough but i really do not have a choice..................

Quote of the day....

Your judgement is right simply because you said so, in your own world, you set your own rights and wrongs but in the real world and in the world of others, it may not be the case......... this explains part of our differences......