So what exactly are the issues? And why?

Life has been tough for many people out there... with the recent Queensland flood, massive earthquake at Christchurch and Japan, Japan's tsunami and nuclear meltdown..... death toll rising each day, every seconds........ some times, i wish i can do more then just watching them helplessly on youtube, on Yahoo news and on TV........ been rather affected emotionally as tough time like this are hard to get by...... coupled with personal issues of career prospects, family financial issues, family troubles, maintaining a long distance relationship, living off simply over here in Brisbane, complete shut off from the world outside my personal world, facing tons of academic stress...... perhaps it is an incredible feat that i can still have a sound mind to type these out in a peaceful manner.

We have our own sets of thinking and mindset, what is on our mind doesn't necessary translate into what others have on theirs. We can't "superimpose" 2 person together and say they are the same simply because we ARE all DIFFERENT and unique in our ways. I don't expect people to carry the same philosophies and mindset as i do because in doing so, what's the point of using the word "unique" to describe each and everyone of us? It has always been about this word, "understand", do you understand how this person works? do u understand why this person works this way? do you understand where is this person coming from? alot of times, people just DON'T understand at all, why? number 1 - the depth of understanding is not enough; number 2 - too much surface informations have shrouded the person's mind from seeing what is inside etc....... many times, we are misguided by what is shown to us rather then what is "communicated" to us. I am not making a one sided stand........ on the other hand, things can be seen at a different perspective as well. Some people, or maybe most people are surface oriented and "smart" in making use of this idea of misleading others by stating the most "correct" way of how this person should feel or things that should be said to mislead others into believing their genuine actions. It is again, "perspectives based on your state of mind", a person's state of mind will influence his or her perspectives or point of view, personal experiences/ordeals etc are what that makes up the person's state of mind, much like a sculpture, if u know what i mean. No one perspective is an absolute right or an absolute wrong, it is all based on other factors that makes it the most correct or the most incorrect judgement. Many things are hard to explain given the unstable nature of human's emotions and thinking, it is all about your ability to put things in your mind, into perspectives and order before things become really clear and self-explanatory........

Quote of the night.....................

I have done nothing wrong behind your back, but if u feel i did, then i did..... because we see what our mind see..... no explanations can break this assumption apart because it became a "mind-oriented" fact....... but i still love you and that's just me...........